I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging“, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge”…
On the topic of edging
Sex
Is it unreasonable to expect my spouse to remove their pubic hair?
Some of you may recognize this question from our Personal Grooming Survey (go fill it out if you haven’t already): Is it unreasonable for me (husband) to expect my wife to continue to remove pubic hair, like she did when we…
How can my spouse love me if they are withholding sex?
I received this question a couple of weeks ago from our Have A Question page: How can my wife say that she loves me but then withhold sex; say she loves me but not want to have sex with me?…
Is it alright to ejaculate on my wife?
I received this anonymous question last night through our Have A Question page. I have more than have been there longer, and I intend to answer them, but today I don’t have much time, so I picked it because I thought…
How do you tell your spouse you’re having too much sex?
I received this question last week through our anonymous Have A Question page: I am a 32 year old mom of three little ones, with a pretty good sex drive (2-6a week) but my husband has much higher than me.…
Personal Grooming Survey
I received a question about a week ago regarding personal grooming, and in the question they stated: [My wife] claims that NO ONE does that every week, month or more than once or twice a year… For those of you…
SWM024: Why Do Men Think Sex is a Reward?
SWM 024
Often men see sex as a reward, even when it’s not intended for one. Conversely, if they don’t have sex, sometimes they feel punished, or that they failed at something. Why is this? I think there are three reasons.
Want help losing weight and getting fit?
I’ve been thinking about fitness lately. More specifically, I’ve been frustrated by my lack of fitness lately. For those who are long time readers, this is an ongoing frustration. I’ve been technically obese my entire adult life, and while I…
Book Review: Do It Better – Twelve Sexual Routines and Principles You Wish You Knew
Back in February, I got a message from Sarah and Jeff Harris (actually the email was from Jeff) telling me they loved my blog (yay!), and that they had written a book “Do It Better – Twelve Sexual Routines and Principles…
How many husbands actually like giving oral sex?
Last week, I posted an anonymous question where someone asked how many wives actually like giving oral sex. In the comments, people wanted to know how many husbands actually like giving oral sex. So, I guess this isn’t technically considered…
How many wives actually like giving oral sex?
Update, August 2026 The numbers in this post come from our 2013 oral sex survey. In 2026 we re-ran the question as part of a much bigger survey, 1,058 complete responses, and the finding held: a large share of wives…