Jay Dee, Author at Uncovering Intimacy

SWM010: All you want is sex

Helping to support our ministry survey (with giveaway!)

I’ve been encouraged by the response from our 2016 goals post. One such response was from one of our readers who drafted a survey to help plan future methods of reaching more people. So, I tweaked it a bit and built…

God is a healer, not a doctor

I often hear Christians claiming that God will fix their illness, or fix their marriage, or fix one aspect of their life, and I think too often we approach God as a doctor, not as a healer. When we experience…

Our plans for 2016

Well, it’s 2016 now, and that means a new year, and new goals and ambitions for our ministry. I have some ideas, and I thought I’d write a quick post to let everyone know what I’m thinking. Because this year…

Is feeling disrespected an excuse to refuse sex?

Sometimes I get questions on our Have a Question page and I have to guess at what’s being asked, since I don’t have any contact info to follow up with. Here’s a message I received yesterday: my taking no interest…

SWM009: How to keep spicing up your sex life

Oral sex and yeast infections

I received this question a few days ago on Facebook, and thought it would make a good post, because I’m sure others have similar questions. Christmas night, after several days of no sex because of the craziness of the holiday,…

Truth or Dare for the married couple

Remember playing Truth or Dare as a teenager? If not, let me explain. Truth or dare is a simple game where your fellow gamer requests a “Truth” or a “Dare”, and then you proceed to form a question, or a…

What if I can’t make my husband orgasm from oral sex?

Here’s another submission from our Have A Question page: My husband and I have been married for a year and during that time I have never been able to get him to orgasm through a handjob or oral sex. He’s the…