During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
BDSM Survey Results
All posts by Jay Dee
SWM 137 – Why we don’t spank our children
Last week, Gary Thomas posted an article on his substack on the topic of discipline vs. punishment—not taking a stance but rather offering it up as a controversial conversation starter. Reading it made me curious about something—does your view of…
SWM 136 – AQ – Wife is mean to kids, another can’t decide if she loves him, and careful who you let teach
Topics Include: Wife thinks she has to be mean to our children Golden showers (again) Wife can’t decide if she loves me or not Just because you’re experienced, doesn’t mean you’re qualified
SWM 135 – It’s good to try new things
Most kids, when growing up, enter a picky stage at some point. Some when they’re toddlers, some when they’re young children, some when they become teenagers. When our 3rd or 4th kid entered this phase, everyone knew the response when…
SWM 134 – AQ – Piercings, how not to start a fight, nude photos, nude beaches and more
Topics include: How often should a healthy man need sex? Clitoral piercing How do we start talking about sex without fighting? Is it good to masturbate to stay in a sexless marriage? Professional nude photos with a male photographer Newly…
SWM 133 – Loving your spouse where they are
I often give beginner homework to my coaching clients. A few of them will likely read this and think, “He was talking about me.” You’re not wrong, but you’re also not alone. I give it out frequently because it helps…
SWM 132 – Breast implants and body image issues
Answering a question from a reader regarding getting breast augmentation due to a lack of self confidence.
SWM 131 – Tips to fight more effectively
Last week, I shared a list of ideas our Couple’s Night group had that helped build a resilient marriage. At the end of the call, we still had some time and started discussing fighting more effectively. Again, the group came…
SWM 130 – Building resiliency in marriage
On the first Tuesday of every month, Chris from TheLionWithin.us and I co-host “Couple’s Night.” Couples from our communities get together to talk about marriage. We discuss struggles, share ideas, tips, and a lot of funny stories. It’s an absolute…
SWM 129 – AQ – Swingers, chastity devices, sex headaches, uncomfortable conversations, flavoured lubes and more
Topics include: Can Christians be swingers? Chastity devices Sex and orgasm headaches Wife only wants one oral sex position, which he hates Worried about stamina Trying to spice things up
SWM 128 – Relationships require recalibration
There’s an old quip about how men get married expecting their wives to stay the same, and women get married expecting to be able to change their men, and neither gets what they want. It’s funny because often, there’s an…