All posts by Jay Dee

How do I build trust in him again?

I received this question from our Have A Question page this weekend: My husband and I have been married almost a year. About 4 months ago he came home from work and started to look up a porn site. He hadn’t done this since we

Can my wife get addicted to sex toys?

I received an email last night with this question: I’ve often wanted to use some sex toys in our relationship to just have fun experimenting.  To mix it up a little. I worry though that my wife will need this type of stimulation all the time

SWM010: All you want is sex

Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreFor the first half of our marriage, I heard from my

God is a healer, not a doctor

I often hear Christians claiming that God will fix their illness, or fix their marriage, or fix one aspect of their life, and I think too often we approach God as a doctor, not as a healer.  When we experience symptoms, we go to a

Our plans for 2016

Well, it’s 2016 now, and that means a new year, and new goals and ambitions for our ministry.  I have some ideas, and I thought I’d write a quick post to let everyone know what I’m thinking. Because this year I shifted some things about

SWM009: How to keep spicing up your sex life

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Oral sex and yeast infections

I received this question a few days ago on Facebook, and thought it would make a good post, because I’m sure others have similar questions. Christmas night, after several days of no sex because of the craziness of the holiday, my Dear Wife initiated, but

Truth or Dare for the married couple

Remember playing Truth or Dare as a teenager?  If not, let me explain.  Truth or dare is a simple game where your fellow gamer requests a “Truth” or a “Dare”, and then you proceed to form a question, or a dare, to put to them.