I received this question from our Have A Question page this weekend: My husband and I have been married almost a year. About 4 months ago he came home from work and started to look up a porn site. He hadn’t done this since we
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Can my wife get addicted to sex toys?
I received an email last night with this question: I’ve often wanted to use some sex toys in our relationship to just have fun experimenting. To mix it up a little. I worry though that my wife will need this type of stimulation all the time
Book Review: 25 questions you’re afraid to ask about love, sex and intimacy
Back in November, I was sent a copy of the book 25 questions you’re afraid to ask about love, sex and intimacy by Dr Juli Slattery to review. If you recall (for those who have been around for a while), I reviewed her last book,
SWM010: All you want is sex
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreFor the first half of our marriage, I heard from my
Helping to support our ministry survey (with giveaway!)
I’ve been encouraged by the response from our 2016 goals post. One such response was from one of our readers who drafted a survey to help plan future methods of reaching more people. So, I tweaked it a bit and built a proper survey out of
God is a healer, not a doctor
I often hear Christians claiming that God will fix their illness, or fix their marriage, or fix one aspect of their life, and I think too often we approach God as a doctor, not as a healer. When we experience symptoms, we go to a
Our plans for 2016
Well, it’s 2016 now, and that means a new year, and new goals and ambitions for our ministry. I have some ideas, and I thought I’d write a quick post to let everyone know what I’m thinking. Because this year I shifted some things about
Is feeling disrespected an excuse to refuse sex?
Sometimes I get questions on our Have a Question page and I have to guess at what’s being asked, since I don’t have any contact info to follow up with. Here’s a message I received yesterday: my taking no interest in sex now a days
SWM009: How to keep spicing up your sex life
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Oral sex and yeast infections
I received this question a few days ago on Facebook, and thought it would make a good post, because I’m sure others have similar questions. Christmas night, after several days of no sex because of the craziness of the holiday, my Dear Wife initiated, but
Truth or Dare for the married couple
Remember playing Truth or Dare as a teenager? If not, let me explain. Truth or dare is a simple game where your fellow gamer requests a “Truth” or a “Dare”, and then you proceed to form a question, or a dare, to put to them.