For the last month or so, we’ve had a survey open about how you prefer to have your spouse initiate sex. If you never got a chance, you can fill it out here. I do sometimes delve into old surveys…
What’s the best way to initiate sex?
Glossary Term: sexual desires
Definition: These are the natural, biological inclinations towards intimate physical contact and emotional connection that typically strengthen the bond between married individuals.
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