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Lovense Ferri Review – A Discreet Little Spark for Married Play

A while back Lovense reached out to me to ask if I wanted to try one of their toys in exchange for a review.  We were given the choice between the Ferri or the Lush 4 to try out, and after a little forum polling and back-and-forth, we ended up picking the Ferri—mostly because the idea of a discreet, wearable toy for public-but-private connection felt a bit too tempting to pass up.

SWM 083 – What is “feeling naughty”?

Hi Jay,
Just a general question, what is the feeling of “feeling naughty”? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply “different” as “naughty” as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? There’s no great issue in our marriage or anything around the topic, just curious for your thoughts. But as a little context that got me thinking – my wife and I had a night in a hotel recently to celebrate our anniversary (which was actually 6 months ago, better late than never). As a treat and for fun, I bought her some lingerie that had a hole in the crotch area. It was very sexy and she loved them and we made love while she wore them. To which she exclaimed “It feels so naughty!”…which I had to agree with, but I’d probably describe more like lots of “fun” whether naughtiness was an element or not. Thanks for your good work! 

Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

Well, Black Friday is upon us again and that means Christmas shopping for a lot of people. 2020 has been a very strange year, hasn’t it? But, we’re in the home stretch now, 2021 is coming up fast. In the meantime, here’s a quick rundown of the deals out there that I’m aware of in case you’re looking for a way to make your Christmas a little more intimate this year.

Black Friday 2019 Resources for your Marriage

Well, the year is almost done. In the US, people celebrating Thanksgiving, Christmas is around the corner, and that means Black Friday and Cyber Monday are upon us yet again. So, I thought I’d let my readers know about a few things out there for