Last week I wrote a post about how fantasizing can be detrimental. In the comments, MaBeck asked this question: Ok, so what about if I fantasize about me and my husband, is that ok? For some reason, if I fantasize about us having sex in public, I
The topic of sex within marriage within the Christian community is an oddity. The reactions to bringing up the topic are quite varied: embarrassment, shame, fear, anger, interest, inquisitiveness, looking for help, looking to share a burden, wanting to know their normal. Often many of
I received this question through our anonymous Have A Question page this weekend: My wife really wants to come out of her shell, but she doesn’t know how. Can you recommend any ‘tools’ which she can use to flourish in these things (eg. Dressing up,
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreToday I’m tackling the question: Is sex a need or a
This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so I took them back from
This week Christina asked me why I act differently when she’s changing, particularly when she’s topless. I’m sure most wives at some point wonder, why it is that their husbands are so obsessed with their breasts. I know for myself, if my wife’s shirt and
This survey is in response to a comment I got on our of our previous surveys. They were wondering how premarital sex affected marital sex. I asked on our Facebook page if there were any other questions people wanted answered, and this is the survey I
Sometimes sex just doesn’t quite go the way you were hoping it would. Orgasm difficulties can include premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia. I was curious about how often these challenges occur. We see numbers about erectile dysfunction (ED) all over TV while
I’ve been keeping a secret from you. It wasn’t intentional…it just hasn’t really come up. But we’re at about the half-way mark now, and if I don’t say anything…it’s going to start getting awkward I think. We’re having another baby boy! For those who aren’t
While this survey is specifically designed to find answers for women, I’ve designed the survey so that husbands can answer the questions too. I get a few people every month asking how they can orgasm, if they are women, or, if they are men, how to
Yesterday morning (4 am my time), I received an anonymous question from a new reader. She’s had a, shall we say, colourful life, but now has settled down, has become a Christian, has a husband and is growing in Christ. But, while we are all