Tag Archives: female arousal

Product Review: LELO SONA Cruise

About a year ago, LELO (one of my favourite toy manufacturers) launched a new product called the SONA.  This product was one of a new class of sexual toys coming out around the same time. The principles behind it was to simply focus on the

Post-Sex Dynamics and Routines Survey Results

A couple of months ago, I posted a survey asking some questions about sexual drives, refractory periods and post-sex routines.  I was hoping we could get 1,000 responses this time.  Well, we made it!  So, here’s my analysis of the responses, for your reading pleasure

Arousal non-concordance

I heard a new term this week and I’m really excited about it, because it’s a concept I’ve known about for a long time, but I’ve not seen many people write about it.  I also didn’t know what to call it.  I like having labels,

Wife turned on by naked women

This question came through on a survey comment, and I’m finally getting around to addressing it. I am a heterosexual married woman, and never been with anyone besides my husband. However, the sight of bare female breasts turns me on. I don’t seek it out

Book Review: Pulling Back the Shades

Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy and the Longings of a Woman’s Heart, by Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slattery is a book all about what drives the female mind with regards to sex.  It seems to be intended for a female audience, to help

Wives and their orgasm experiences

While this survey is specifically designed to find answers for women, I’ve designed the survey so that husbands can answer the questions too. I get a few people every month asking how they can orgasm, if they are women, or, if they are men, how to

Why Do You Think Women Need More Foreplay Than Men?

Anonymous Questions from our readers

I should start by saying, I don’t fit the male stereotype. I love foreplay. I like kissing, I like hugging, I like feeling my wife. I also recognize that I need foreplay in order to perform sexually better. On the other side, my wife also does not fit the female stereotype. She gets annoyed with foreplay, she wants to “get on with it”, though she does recognize that she also needs foreplay in order to perform sexually better. We do fit the male/female stereo typical sex drives though, so, here’s my opinion on the matter: