During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
BDSM Survey Results
Glossary Term: dominant
Definition: Refers to the partner who is granted a higher level of control or authority within consensual intimate activities, often for the purpose of mutual pleasure and trust-building.
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