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How To React To A Sexual Awakening

My last post, How Long Does a Sexual Awakening Take?, dealt with the fact that an awakening is sometimes a process, and one must be patient during that process.  This one will tackle the other side of the marriage: Typically,…

How Long Does A Sexual Awakening Take?

Just so everyone is on the same page: the term “Sexual Awakening” is used in many Christian Marriage communities to describe a point where a spouse who has been refusing (limiting sex in the relationship), or one who just has…

Why Do Men Think Sex Is A Reward?

Anonymous Questions from our readers

Sex is a reward in the minds of most men. Why do husbands think this? What does this mean for your relationship? Should you still have sex when he’s wrong?

All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics of conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have a pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot…

Is sex a need or want in marriage?

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, and years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my…

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of our marriage, we were in constant argument was the frequency of sex. This seems to be common among many Christian marriages. Why is it a struggle? How do you resolve the struggle?