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Orgasm difficulties survey results

Orgasm Difficulties Survey Results

Sometimes sex just doesn’t quite go the way you were hoping it would.  Orgasm difficulties can include premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia.  I was curious about how often these challenges occur.  We see numbers about erectile dysfunction…

Book Review: Pulling Back the Shades

Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy and the Longings of a Woman’s Heart, by Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slattery is a book all about what drives the female mind with regards to sex.  It seems to be intended for…

Erotic Literature Survey Infographic

Erotica Literature Survey Results 300

Here is an Infographic based on the results of our Erotic Literature Survey (you can still fill it out if you missed it, we’ll use the results in future posts).  I’ll be writing a post giving my thoughts on the…

Sex During Pregnancy Infographic

Sex During Pregnancy Infographic Card

A week and a half ago I posted a survey about sex during pregnancy.  Sex is a taboo subject, sex during pregnancy even more so.  Both women and men have questions, false preconceptions and often a fear of reaching out…

Wives’ Orgasm Experiences Infographic

Wives Orgasm ExperiencesCard

Every survey we run, I get a certain question in the comments.  It comes in different ways.  How can I orgasm, how can I get my wife to orgasm, why can’t I orgasm, what do other wives do to orgasm, what…

Wives and their orgasm experiences

Survey

While this survey is specifically designed to find answers for women, I’ve designed the survey so that husbands can answer the questions too. I get a few people every month asking how they can orgasm, if they are women, or, if…

Work and school arrangements affect sex

Work and Sex

So, this past week we ran a survey.  Basically I was curious about how different working combinations in a marriage play out in terms of sexual frequency.  Again, as always not that sex is the end all and be all…

Female Ejaculation / Squirting / Gushing Survey Results

Squirting Female Ejaculation

I’m guessing that this is the most controversial survey we have done to date.  What makes me say that?  Well, first off, we had the lowest number of respondents in a long time.  Secondly…people told us that it was.  In fact, one…

Book Review: The Passion Principles

the passion principles

The Passion Principles: Celebrating Sexual Freedom in Marriage by Shannon Ethridge (author of The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual Thoughts) is all about sex within marriage (my favorite topic).  It is less a book, in the traditional sense, and more…

Christians, Anal Sex and Anal Play

Christians Anal Sex Anal Play

I’ve been getting questions about anal sex and Christian marriage almost since we launched the blog.  Every week, we get unfulfilled searches on our blog, emails from readers, and survey respondent comments asking about this topic.  I’ll be honest, I’ve…

Book(let) Review: Creating True Agape

True Agape Booklet Review 20 At Home Dates

Cassie Celestain over at TrueAgape.com contacted me just over a week ago to ask if I could review her booklet.  As is my policy, I never turn down the opportunity to read a resource that might help marriages, and if I think it…