A while back Lovense reached out to me to ask if I wanted to try one of their toys in exchange for a review. We were given the choice between the Ferri or the Lush 4 to try out, and…
Lovense Ferri Review – A Discreet Little Spark for Married Play
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SWM 150 – Control, sex and marriage
Last month, I watched a great video by Gary Thomas and his wife Lisa on how a controlling spirit can harm a marriage. It got me thinking: In Christian circles, we often struggle to define the difference between healthy leadership…
SWM 149 – My daughter’s speech – Transgenderism is a lie
Today we’re going to do something a little bit different. For those who have been listening for more than a year, you know that my kids are in 4H and every year they have to deliver a speech. For the…
SWM 148 – 14 red flags your marriage is drifting towards divorce, affairs or lifelong unhappiness
Have you noticed how quickly disagreements turn into demonization these days? Whether it’s politics, religion, or even marriage, we’ve gotten stuck in a cycle of contempt—where the ‘other side’ isn’t just wrong, they’re evil. And it’s destroying relationships. I see…
SWM 147 – How do you know if you’re sexually compatible
The most common argument I hear for premarital sex is, “You need to know if you’re sexually compatible before getting married. Otherwise, you might end up stuck in a sexless, unfulfilling relationship.” And it sounds like sound reasoning. We test-drive…
SWM 146 – Legalistic vs Loving Approach to Marriage – Shifting from Rules to Relationship
In my work as a marriage coach, I often see couples transition from one type of marriage to another. There’s no clear line between these states, no set of rules that definitively places someone in one category or the other.…
SWM 145 – AQ – Handjobs, sex on a full stomach, routines, sex tapes and more
Topics include: •Talking about a lack of sex •Not drive due to cancer treatments •Wife doesn’t want to use lube •Our sex life is routine •Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation •Do husbands like handjobs? •Can a married couple film…
SWM 144 – Why wives have a complicated relationship with sex and what to do about it
One of our supporters posted a question in our forum which led to a bit of a discussion on what men perceive as sexy, and it shook the questioner a bit, because it was radically different from what she had…
SWM 143 – Redefining sex – How to have a thriving sex life despite sexual dysfunction
I feel like I have some explaining to do. A couple of weeks ago, I shared that lately, Christina and I have started having sex a lot more than usual. We had more sexual encounters last month than there were…
SWM 142 – AQ – September 2024 – Exhibitionism, no sex in 4 months, rough sex and more
Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm
SWM 141 – AQ August 2024 – Transactional sex, no sex due to birth, lube recommendations and more
Topics include: Wife trades chores for sex How to handle no sex due to birth Water-based lube that doesn’t cause UTIs Guy’s relationships always end in affairs Post-childbirth and penis size preferences Wife is a gatekeeper