The other night, after my wife and I had sex, we were lying there in that sweaty, happy pile you end up in when the oxytocin kicks in. As I often do, I asked her what she was thinking about.…
SWM 153 – Sex as an Act of Worship
Glossary Term: spiritual intimacy
Definition: It refers to the deep, shared connection between two people, typically within a marital relationship, that is cultivated through shared faith, values, worship, and ongoing communication about their spiritual journey together.
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