Topics Include:
Low Drive / Low T Husband
Wife won’t talk about sex
Not attracted to my husband
Wife against spicing up sex
Is there a difference between having sex and making love?
SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions
Tag Archives: libido mismatch
What do couples do when one wants sex and the other doesn’t?
The difference in sexual desire between a husband and a wife is one of those universal conflicts. I think just about every marriage deals with it at some point. If yours hasn’t yet – well congratulations newlyweds! Just because it’s a conflict though doesn’t mean
SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse
In this episode, we’re tackling the subjects:
- How do you deal with deployment and sex drives
- How do we improve sexual intimacy
- How to improve our sex life
- Satisfaction and adventurousness
- How do you get your wife to be more dominant in bed
- Asking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t work
- Husband has sleep apnea
- What should teenagers do instead of masturbate?
SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model
Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what sort of sex drive you have, because it can change. Focus more on your spouse, and less on fitting them into a box. That way, if things change, you can adjust to the changes, rather that be stuck on a model that doesn’t match your dynamic anymore.
SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing
Ever feel like having a high sex drive is a burden? Have you wondered why God made you this way? Here are some of the reasons I think having spontaneous desire is a blessing.
SWM 046 – Responsive desire is a blessing
Responsive desire isn’t an abnormality, disability or curse. It’s a blessing. Once you learn to work with it, it can actually lead to an amazing sex life.
SWM 043 – Anonymous Questions from April 2019
Answering the anonymous questions from April 2019 from our Have A Question page.
Topics Include:
Wife looking up ex
Wife used to be a swinger
Is bondage okay?
Our sex life is boring
Wife destroying self-esteem
Is it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?
Wife teasing husband sexually
Why does my husband want to lick my ass?!
and more…
Anonymous Questions – Dec 1, 2018
Alright, it’s been a couple months, so time for another roundup of the anonymous questions I’ve received. If you want to submit your own question, you can do so here. Or, of course, you can always just email me at [email protected].
Anonymous Questions – Oct 10, 2018
It’s been almost two months since I answered anonymous questions, so I thought I’d catch up. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous Have A Question page. If you have a question that you’d like answered,
Are you sabotaging your sex life like I do?
I’ve spent the last few years trying to get better insight into the mind of a spouse who desires less sex. Why? Because I’m married to one, and one of my goals in life is to make her feel known and loved. Unfortunately, the more
Anonymous Questions – Aug 14, 2018
It’s been about a month since our last Anonymous Questions posting, so I thought I’d catch up, as I have a couple of questions that I haven’t yet answered. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous