I got this question last night: On my wedding night I lost my virginity to my husband. I went on my honeymoon the following week and my husband attempted to have sex once and it lasted like a couple mins because it hurt me .
Why does sex hurt?
Glossary Term: foreplay
Definition: Foreplay is the mutual, loving, and intimate interaction, typically involving kissing, touching, and other physical contact, that precedes sexual intercourse to enhance arousal and readiness for the sexual act within the context of a marital relationship.
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