Category Archives: Sex


Can a wife be both a lady and an exciting sexual partner?

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page last month.  I have more recent ones, but to be honest, I don’t follow a “first come first serve” policy.  I sort of pick whichever one I’m inspired to answer on any given day.

How many husbands actually like giving oral sex?

Last week, I posted an anonymous question where someone asked how many wives actually like giving oral sex.  In the comments, people wanted to know how many husbands actually like giving oral sex.  So, I guess this isn’t technically considered an anonymous question, but more

How many wives actually like giving oral sex?

I don’t remember when I got this question.  Honestly, I don’t even know how I got it.  Could have been an email, or through our anonymous Have A Question page, or on a survey comment.  But, I keep a list of all the questions I

Where do I hide our sex toys?

Here’s a question I received a couple of weeks ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I’m interested in adding toys to our intimate repertoire.  However, one of the issues which keeps me reluctant to do so is the fear of my kids finding

Homosexuality and Christians: How Do We Respond?

I’ve been avoiding this topic for quite some time.  4+ years of blogging about sex, and I’ve barely mentioned the issue of homosexuality.  Why have I been avoiding it?  Well, to be honest, I wanted to flesh out my own beliefs.  My own denomination has

How can I make him taste better?

I received this question a couple of days ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I love giving my husband oral, but I find his semen to be very bitter. It’s actually very difficult to not gag at the taste. I thought I was

What if I want a chance to orgasm?

I received this question yesterday morning from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hi JD, do you think it’s okay for me to use a vibrator to orgasim next to hubby after he has fallen asleep after sex? He does give me orgasims during sex

Can Christian couples swing?

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a few days ago: Can we swap  wives  for sex (intercourse) in a marriage? We are told that there is a website on christian “swinging” (wife swapping). How  christian  is this in a christian

What’s the difference between making love and having sex?

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a couple of days ago: Making love vs. having sex, what is the difference? What does this look like practically in the context of a Christian marriage? From what I have read, having sex