Topics Include:
How to improve a boring sex life
Why only ED during sex?
Meds for Premature Ejaculation
Risky public sex
Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED?
Fantasizing about premarital sex
Turned on by my wife urinating
Wife with no interest in sex
Is breastplay required for a good marriage?
All posts by Jay Dee
SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:
How we look at sex
Why we have refractory periods
Whether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasm
A husband who is secretly purchasing toys
A widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was cremated
SWM 074 – Apr 2021 Questions – Friends who grope, postpartum recovery, anxious husbands and more
Topics Include:
Friends touching me inappropriately
Postpartum recovery from the husband’s perspective
Husband is anxious about sex
Not attracted to my husband anymore
Husband doesn’t like oral sex
How to get over husband’s porn use
Narcissistic husband and adulterous wife
Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source?
Does the source of an idea determine whether or not it’s good? Let’s say you had a prior porn addiction and you saw something you want to try with your spouse, does that make it now sinful? Here’s a question I received a while ago that I’m going to address today.
SWM 072 – Mar 2021 Questions – Should humans be non-monogamous and more
Topics include:
Is any part of porn okay?
Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral?
Are humans meant to be non-monogamous?
Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely?
Wife doesn’t enjoy sex, but says she wants to be promiscuous
SWM 071 – Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies?
Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it’s only in your mind, does that make it okay?
Why you should take couples massage classes
I’ve been telling husbands for years that they should learn how to give a good sensual massage. It’s one of my go-to recommendations for helping couples when it comes to sexual intimacy. The couples who have tried it all agree – it can transform a marriage to gain the skill of giving good massages. Both husbands and wives benefit from taking a couples massage course, though the immediate draw might be different.
In this post, I’m going to tell you a bit about why you should take a couples massage course. I’ll also let you know my favourite couples massage course out there.
SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more
Topics Include:
Semi-public sex
Squirting
Low drive wife
Fell asleep during sex
Wife doesn’t like physical contact
What is pornographic
Poophole loophole
SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?
A friend of mine recently asked if the Bible allows you to remarry after you’ve been divorced. Her impression from reading the Bible was that if you were divorced and remarried, not only would you be committing adultery in God’s eyes, but so too would be your future spouse. Knowing that I like to tackle difficult questions, she asked me – is it okay to remarry after being divorced?
SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more
Topic include:
Is nudism a sin?
Is exhibitionism okay?
Does Romans 13:14 say you shouldn’t plan for sex?
Wife won’t get help for trauma
How do I start an ANR?
How do I be a respectful wife when my husband is watching porn?
Is male lingerie okay?
Doggy style is too deep
Opposite sleep schedules affecting sex
SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love
Why you don’t have that “I want to rip your clothes off” feeling anymore. In this post/podcast episode, I tackle the question of what causes that feeling, and the neuro-chemicals involved.