SWM 164
About one marriage in five has the husband as the lower-drive spouse. What 3,358 survey responses say about why, and whether he is hiding a porn habit.
Why does my husband have a lower sex drive than me?
Glossary Term: Sexless marriage
Definition: A 'sexless marriage' refers to a marital union where sexual intercourse between the spouses is infrequent or absent for various reasons, such as health issues, emotional disconnect, or other personal circumstances.
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