Answering questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Topics include: Wife keeps falling asleep during sex Is it possible for women to orgasm without cumming? Wife wants bigger toys How do I handle my wife screaming at me? Clone-a-willy Blowjobs make me nauseous Do men who take ED meds tell their wives? Why should single people abstain from sex? Insecurity about penis size Why do I look at men’s crotches? Husband is constantly sexual Is prostate stimulation wrong?
Topics include: Husband is in jail Husband masturbates all the time Husband won’t quit porn Should Christians avoid Tantric Sex? Premature Ejaculation Bondage Resources Jock Itch Wife is not interested in sex Husband not interested in sex with wife Being “too loose” after children When to disclose a masturbation & porn addiction when dating
Topics Include: How to get more intimate nights with my wife Can I have sex with my ex-husband? Does my husband want kinky sex? Is it okay to want more passionate sex? What happens when you die? – what about Lazarus and the Rich man? Why does my wife suddenly want daily sex? Is it okay for my wife to flash me? Wife thinks it’s sinful to touch herself during sex
The difference in sexual desire between a husband and a wife is one of those universal conflicts. I think just about every marriage deals with it at some point. If yours hasn’t yet – well congratulations newlyweds! Just because it’s a conflict though doesn’t mean
Anyone else feel like Father’s Day sort of sneaked up on them? I mean, Mother’s Day seems to have a lot of ads, I feel like there was lots of warning. But Father’s Day? I mean, I get flyers to the hardware store to buy power
What does it mean to feel “connected” during sex. For many spouses, when their husband or wife says “I don’t feel connected during sex”, they get quite confused. They’re thinking “I am literally inside of you/you are literally inside of me, how can we be MORE connected?!”
But of course, they’re not talking about a physical connection, but rather an emotional, mental or spiritual connection.
Topics include: Is fingering fornication? Is it wrong to fulfill my wife’s fantasy of having a gang-bang? How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks? Husband’s penis keeps falling out during sex Wife doesn’t want to dress up for me
Topics include: How can I become more comfortable masturbating? Why wouldn’t he use lube? How to have “team sex” (not what you think) Husband can’t be emotionally intimate or trust me Meta discussion about piercings How do I start to fix my marriage? Becoming more sexually engaged
Question from a reader: So, I was listening to one of your podcasts, I don’t remember which one but you were talking about souls and what happens after death. You said that nothing happens after death until Jesus comes back. But I want to know what you think about the story Jesus tells in Luke 6:19-31, it’s the story of the rich man and the beggar. After the beggar Lazarus dies, he was carried away in Abraham’s bosom. According to this story, when you die, your soul goes paradise (I believe).
Anonymous questions from December 2019 and January 2020
Topics Include: Gang bang fantasy How to make sex not feel like an obligation How to get past sebacks during foreplay Wife needs to feel “dirty” to orgasm A warning about “Boundaries” and how to mitigate the damage it can cause Long term effects of using a vibrator
A reader asks: I enjoy calling my husband “Sir” in bed, as we enjoy our submissive/dominant roles in marriage to be played out in sex as well. He felt weird about it at first, but now loves it. I read your post a while ago where you mentioned that humiliation isn’t good for your partner in the long term. Would you consider this to be humiliation? What about the trend to call men “daddy” in bed?