Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season. So, of course, the last couple of weeks, it’s been rolling through our family of 7. Christina and I were the last to get it, and it seemed I got…
SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?
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SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help?
Lately, I’ve noticed a trend on social media where famous creator couples make videos of the wife telling the husband that visitors are coming over and they need to prepare. In response, the husband goes and starts cleaning out the…
SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins
Topics include: Can I use a strap-on on my wife? My husband’s ex-girlfriend What’s a foreskin for?
SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage
I had a wife ask, “Sex should be a gift given freely, and if I don’t have veto power, am I really giving freely?” This is my response in light of 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 and the role model Jesus was…
SWM 113 – Orgasms and age, calling your spouse daddy, guilt from initiating
Topics Include: A husband’s changing orgasms Can widowers masturbate Husband won’t stop masturbation habit Calling husband “daddy” Feeling guilty about initiating sex
SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations?
Answering the question: Hi Jay, I’ve noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what’s considered desirable sexual performance. As a man, I feel like there’s a lot of pressure to perform sexually.…
SWM 111 – Sex in heaven, oral sex positions, recovering from affairs, wanting to be a mom
Topics include: Sex in heaven Oral sex positions How to recover from an affair I want to become a mom
SWM 110 – Noticing other women, forgotten anniversary, disconnecting during foreplay and more
Topics include: My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women Wife is hurt but not healing after years Wife disconnects during foreplay What can we do during fertile days Oral sex questions Husband doesn’t know our anniversary date Should…
SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t
Topics Include: Crossdressing Reframing “duty” sex Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t Afraid to have more children
SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?
One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. The popular view is that hell is a place of eternal torment where vengeful God sends you for all of eternity for not obeying Him. People use…
SWM 107 – Wife wants too much sex, repeat unproductive fights, boundaries during dating and sexy underwear for men
Topics include: Wife wants too much sex Couple needs counselling Keep having the same unproductive fight Make boundaries before you start dating Sexy underwear for men