A reader asked: Your post about your surgery is 5+ years old…. any updates, additional thoughts, additional things to research? Is there a certain “technique” we should look into (stitches vs something else I read about briefly?) dare I ask, has it affected your faith? We are Southern Baptist raised, and raising our kiddos Baptist/ non-denominational. In other words, denomination is not a factor in this decision. But there are so many opinions out there, I’m at a loss. I know that is what they are, just opinions. At this point, if I spend time in prayer and the Lord brings me peace… I’m going to trust God to give my husband the same peace. If not, we will go another route. As the wife, even if we are both pro-vasectomy, I just don’t know how our relationship would handle the guilt if something did go wrong….
Today we’re going to answer a question about having sex with a well-endowed husband. This question came in a while ago, and since I hadn’t answered it before and I felt there was a lot of information to share, I thought I’d split it off into its own post. So, let’s talk about the struggles of having a larger-than-average-sized penis.
Topics Include: Wet Dreams Money and Marriage Handjobs and control Is my dead husband still with me? Are dreams sinful? How do I take control of my marriage? Sex once a year Is it wrong for a widow to have desires? Unsatisfied with little sex Wife suddenly changed oral skills Best position for first time Is oral sex a sin? Husband has a lot more experience Movies to get in the mood Prepping for anal sex How can I get my wife to show more passion? Issues with wife’s self-esteem Questions about lube Realistic toys
Topics include: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn’t acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we going too far? Sex frequency has gone down Crossdressing men Rimming Sex once or twice per year since kids were born Conflict over anal play CBD Lube Spanking Masturbation for medical reasons Is masturbation okay if your spouse can’t participate? Will masturbation keep me out of heaven?
Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of “feeling naughty”? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply “different” as “naughty” as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? There’s no great issue in our marriage or anything around the topic, just curious for your thoughts. But as a little context that got me thinking – my wife and I had a night in a hotel recently to celebrate our anniversary (which was actually 6 months ago, better late than never). As a treat and for fun, I bought her some lingerie that had a hole in the crotch area. It was very sexy and she loved them and we made love while she wore them. To which she exclaimed “It feels so naughty!”…which I had to agree with, but I’d probably describe more like lots of “fun” whether naughtiness was an element or not. Thanks for your good work!
Topics Include: Why do people think it’s okay to commit adultery if their spouse is okay with it? Caught son masturbating with his mom’s underwear – what do I do? Handjobs with condoms on? Guilt about bachelorette party Is crossdressing normal? The TENUTO How do I get my wife to come to bed?
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn’t want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you to be a virgin if you don’t get married? Dealing with the loss of a wife Can men continue to have sex after orgasm? Should you do Our Sexploration List while aroused or not? Pain during sex Are men turned off by prolapses? How to build stamina Are topless and nude photos the same as porn?
Topics Include: Snoopy wife caught husband Is orgasming the same as cumming? Is OMGYes okay? Ejaculate colour & consistency Encouraging senior sex Wife won’t “finish” oral sex Wife searched for porn Birth control for Christians Wife’s smell What sexual behaviour is prohibited Zoloft and PE update Multiple wives – again
Topics Include: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband? Is it okay to fantasize about my fiancee?
Topics Include: How to improve a boring sex life Why only ED during sex? Meds for Premature Ejaculation Risky public sex Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED? Fantasizing about premarital sex Turned on by my wife urinating Wife with no interest in sex Is breastplay required for a good marriage?