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What does it mean to feel “connected” during sex. For many spouses, when their husband or wife says “I don’t feel connected during sex”, they get quite confused. They’re thinking “I am literally inside of you/you are literally inside of…
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Topics include: Is fingering fornication? Is it wrong to fulfill my wife’s fantasy of having a gang-bang? How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks? Husband’s penis keeps falling out during sex Wife doesn’t want to dress…
Anonymous questions from February 2020. Topics include: How can I become more comfortable masturbating? Why wouldn’t he use lube? How to have “team sex” (not what you think) Husband can’t be emotionally intimate or trust me Meta discussion about piercings How…
Anonymous questions from December 2019 and January 2020 Topics Include: Gang bang fantasy How to make sex not feel like an obligation How to get past sebacks during foreplay Wife needs to feel “dirty” to orgasm A warning about “Boundaries”…
Answering reader’s questions about: Other types of orgasms How to deal with a transgendered friend? Is crossdressing for comfort wrong? How to deal with an unrepentant husband? Orgasmless sex (on purpose) Wife sleeping during sex Husband won’t come to bed…
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In this episode, we’re tackling the subjects:How do you deal with deployment and sex drivesHow do we improve sexual intimacyHow to improve our sex lifeSatisfaction and adventurousnessHow do you get your wife to be more dominant in bedAsking doesn’t work,…
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Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what sort of sex drive you have, because it can change. Focus more on your spouse, and less on fitting them into a box. That way, if things change, you can adjust to the changes, rather…
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Topics Include: Sex Drives Changing How to Squirt Wife is into whipping Anal sex tips Single & erections Low drive wife secretly masturbating Secret Facebook profiles Porn addiction ruining relationships Wife can go months without sex Husband with Asperger’s Sex…
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Ever feel like having a high sex drive is a burden? Have you wondered why God made you this way? Here are some of the reasons I think having spontaneous desire is a blessing.
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Responsive desire isn’t an abnormality, disability or curse. It’s a blessing. Once you learn to work with it, it can actually lead to an amazing sex life.
Today we’re tackling such questions as: How important is communication during sex? Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight? Someone asks if they should have an affair How do you find time to have sex when…