I think one of the biggest questions women have revolve around the question of beauty. There seems to be this innate need to be found beautiful, to know that you are captivating. Open up Google and type “Does my husband”,…
Am I beautiful?
Physical Intimacy
Do Christians make sex tapes?
A couple of weeks ago, we ran our survey titled Survey on Christians and the prevalence of home videos and pictures of the naked variety. I know, catchy title, eh? I guess I wasn’t feeling very creative that day. It…
The rest of the world is watching
I’ve reading some of the comments from our making home videos and taking home pictures survey (please fill it out if you haven’t already), and I noticed a lot of spouses saying they’ve be afraid of someone seeing the pictures or…
Sex leads to more sex
I thought I’d write a quick post about this, because it seems that it’s not always a well known concept. It’s the basic idea that your sex life seems to have inertia. For those of you with Physics backgrounds, we…
When is it okay to say “no” to sex?
This discussion comes up a lot when talking about sex. It’s usually framed around the concept of rights and duties. But marriage isn’t about rights and duties, it’s about love, respect, and service. One of our readers asked for a post on this…
Survey on Christians and the prevalence of home videos and pictures of the naked variety
We’ve been talking a bit about pornography, movies with erotic content and such in them lately, and this has spawned a lot of people to ask questions about whether or not it’s okay to take home videos and/or pictures of…
Who’s influencing your thoughts?
Last month my pastor did a sermon series on the life of David, and he brought out a point that I felt had applications in marriage. It’s the idea of being careful who you listen to, because they can invade…
Are you willing to live for your spouse?
A couple of weeks ago our church started 10 days of prayer. For 10 days members showed up at the church every night to pray for about an hour and a half. We prayed for our members, for our church,…
How NOT to quit porn
Porn has become almost ubiquitous in our society, it’s everywhere, just behind the scenes. An estimated 50% of Christian men struggle with porn addiction at some point in their life (including pastors), and the last number I heard for women…
Is it okay to use a toy as foreplay?
Here’s a question I received a while back. I’ll be honest, I don’t even know what channel it came through, either one of our surveys or our Have A Question page I’d imagine. In either case, our reader asks: Is…
What do you do if you are asexual?
This question is starting to come up more and more. This week, I received the following message on Facebook: So what about ‘Asexuals’? I am a college student currently in a dating relationship and to be honest, I have pretty much…