What Should I Get My Husband For Father’s Day?

Jay Dee

What Should I Get My Husband For Father’s Day?

Jun 17, 2012

So, its Fathers Day. Do you have a gift yet? I have good news for you. You don’t need to buy one. Here’s what most husbands want for Fathers Day.

Father’s Day is a day to, well, honour fathers and is celebrated in many countries around the world on the third Sunday in June every year, which is today!  Do you have a gift yet?  I have good news for you.  You don’t need to buy one.  Here’s what most husbands want for Fathers Day:

The act that made them a dad in the first place given, not out of obligation to fulfill a requirement of the date, but out of genuine enthusiasm, respect, and love.  We want you to show initiative in the bedroom, we want you to be willing, we want you to be the inner sexually adventurous woman that we know (or at least we hope) lies buried under all those layers of mom, church school teacher, nursery volunteer, food committee leader, etc, etc, etc..

As much as women tend not to want Mother’s Day to be about sex, most fathers certainly do want sex to be a part of their special day, with the woman who gave them children and made them a father.

Yesterday night, @TheMarriageBed posted this:

A tie for Father’s Day? Only if it’s the only thing his wife is wearing when she comes to bed!

The perfect gift for Father’s Day

A Father's Day gift that won't cost you anything and he'll love

So, here’s what I’m thinking would be an awesome twist on the typical Father’s Day gift, if you forgot and are looking last minute. I mean, that third Sunday of June can sneak up on you, right? Who picks these dates?

Get a simple box, bag, whatever.  Honestly, the wrapping won’t matter.  Get a few of his old ties (that he doesn’t care if they get wrinkled).  Put them in the box.  Give it to him when people aren’t around.  When he looks confused, tell him he can use one as a blindfold and be creative with the others.  And do it with a sexy look and a look of hunger in your eyes, and then don’t chicken out.  You need to follow through with this, or this will be the worst fathers day he’s ever had.  If you do follow through, for most guys out there, it’ll be the best tie he’s ever gotten.  He may even wear it just so he can remember the night.

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12 thoughts on “What Should I Get My Husband For Father’s Day?”

  1. HappyWife70 says:

    Awesome idea! I just gave this to my husband (with something “extra” added) and the promise of tonight. He was confused by the ties at first, since he recognized them, but I explained what he should do with them and he said “That’s all the present I ever wanted!”

    Thanks for the great idea!

    1. Jay Dee says:

      That’s awesome! So happy it worked as planned. I’m am curious about the “extra”, but I won’t pry.
      Have a great Fathers Day!

  2. Lisa says:

    I don’t know what would hang lower, the tie or my breasts after 4 kids. Maybe I need a bra…

    1. Jay Dee says:

      My wife has had 4 kids as well. For me, I’d prefer without the bra.

  3. Lisa says:

    Ha! We are meeting half way and I’m getting implants for our 10th anniversary in 2 weeks. There are some things the gym jut can’t fix!

  4. Emi says:

    The best present you can give your husband is yourself. No expenses (:

  5. ella says:

    Great idea, i’m gonna try this one, thanks.

    1. Jay Dee says:


  6. redmerlot says:

    “not following through” “worst Father’s Day he’s ever had”
    Words to live by, and not just on Father’s Day.
    The only thing worse than not having sex with your husband often enough is leading him to think you are interested only to snap off the light at 11 PM and say you’re “too tired” or your “back hurts” or any of 100 other reasons. If you are going to hint and “offer”, then that needs to be the priority for the day. Everything else gets scuttled to make sure you can follow through. As you can tell, I’ve been on the receiving end of this “tease” and “not follow through” many times, and believe me, it hurts worse than you will ever understand. Much more than the disappointment, it undermines his trust in you. Not a nice gift for Father’s Day.

  7. Anonymous says:

    My wife would rather tie me up and that’s great. She can then do things to me for as long a she wants. There are no rules when we do this and each time if different. Other times it’s her turn. Tonight is the night!

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