During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
BDSM Survey Results
Glossary Term: discipline
Definition: the consensual use of rules, structure, and corrective actions within a power exchange dynamic to foster trust, accountability, and intimacy
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