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One of our supporters posted a question in our forum which led to a bit of a discussion on what men perceive as sexy, and it shook the questioner a bit, because it was radically different from what she had…
SWM 142
Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm
SWM 141
Topics include: Wife trades chores for sex How to handle no sex due to birth Water-based lube that doesn’t cause UTIs Guy’s relationships always end in affairs Post-childbirth and penis size preferences Wife is a gatekeeper
We started this website with a mind of improving Christian marriages. For the last decade or so, we’ve been mostly focused on people who were already marriage. To be honest, there was enough there to work on for over a…
SWM 139
Recently, I’ve noticed a question popping up all over the place. It’s come up in our supporter forum, coaching sessions, emails, comments in our latest survey, and more. This question points to a fundamental tension in many marriages – at…
Last week, Gary Thomas posted an article on his substack on the topic of discipline vs. punishment—not taking a stance but rather offering it up as a controversial conversation starter. Reading it made me curious about something—does your view of…
Most kids, when growing up, enter a picky stage at some point. Some when they’re toddlers, some when they’re young children, some when they become teenagers. When our 3rd or 4th kid entered this phase, everyone knew the response when…
SWM 134
Topics include: How often should a healthy man need sex? Clitoral piercing How do we start talking about sex without fighting? Is it good to masturbate to stay in a sexless marriage? Professional nude photos with a male photographer Newly…
SWM 123
Topics include: The monthly masturbation challenge How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her? Periods and vacations and sex Aging and orgasm struggles How do I know if I’m in right? Does fantasizing about my husband make it a…
SWM 120
A few years ago, I was talking to a client during a coaching call, and we got off on a bit of a tangent about condom use. I explained a few ways that people tend to lower the protection of…
SWM 115
Topics include: Can I use a strap-on on my wife? My husband’s ex-girlfriend What’s a foreskin for?