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We ran a survey a few years ago, and only 1/3 of our readers engaged in mutual masturbation in their marriage.  If you never have, this might be a great time to try.  You get to be a bit voyeuristic and an exhibitionist while learning how your spouse likes to be touched. https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/mutual-masturbation-survey-results/

We ran a survey a few years ago, and only 1/3 of our readers engaged in mutual masturbation in their marriage. If you never have, this might be a great time to try. You get to be a bit voyeuristic and an exhibitionist while learning how your spouse likes to be touched. https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/mutual-masturbation-survey-results/ ...

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SWM 072 - Mar 2021 Questions - Should humans be non-monogamous and more - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-072-mar-2021-questions-should-humans-be-non-monogamous/  #marriage #sex #questions #answers #christian #intimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.

SWM 072 - Mar 2021 Questions - Should humans be non-monogamous and more - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-072-mar-2021-questions-should-humans-be-non-monogamous/

#marriage #sex #questions #answers #christian #intimacy

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To all the Star Wars fans out there - how are you celebrating?

To all the Star Wars fans out there - how are you celebrating? ...

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We have a group of wives just finishing up our Becoming More Sexually Engaged course, and the reviews and feedback are starting to come in.  I love getting to see the difference in these marriages from when they started.  We can't solve the circumstances of life, but you can change your response to it.  In this case, nothing has changed in their life, except that they're now making their marriage a priority, and reaping the rewards.  If this is something you want for your marriage, you can pre-order the course here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/bmse as we'll be starting another group this month.  Not sure yet?  Stay tuned for details on a webinar on the 16th about the course.

We have a group of wives just finishing up our Becoming More Sexually Engaged course, and the reviews and feedback are starting to come in. I love getting to see the difference in these marriages from when they started. We can't solve the circumstances of life, but you can change your response to it. In this case, nothing has changed in their life, except that they're now making their marriage a priority, and reaping the rewards.

If this is something you want for your marriage, you can pre-order the course here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/bmse as we'll be starting another group this month. Not sure yet? Stay tuned for details on a webinar on the 16th about the course.
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We have a lot of division these days in our nations, and I'm not going to say all sides in these arguments are good.  I have my beliefs, and you have yours.  But, let's remember that whatever your side, the majority of people on the other side still genuinely want the best for all people.  We just disagree on how to achieve that end.  When we demonize PEOPLE on the other side, rather than debating the ideology itself, we promote division, fear and hatred.  It's bad for society, and even worse when it happens in your marriage.

We have a lot of division these days in our nations, and I'm not going to say all sides in these arguments are good. I have my beliefs, and you have yours. But, let's remember that whatever your side, the majority of people on the other side still genuinely want the best for all people. We just disagree on how to achieve that end. When we demonize PEOPLE on the other side, rather than debating the ideology itself, we promote division, fear and hatred. It's bad for society, and even worse when it happens in your marriage. ...

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Friday night is the beginning of Sabbath.  In our house, we've decided that means we do our best to disconnect from the world and focus on God, family, friends and creation.  Friday nights are the best part, because with no TV, kids gone to bed, it's just me and my wife.  #christian #marriage #intimacy #datenight #sexytime #sabbath

Friday night is the beginning of Sabbath. In our house, we've decided that means we do our best to disconnect from the world and focus on God, family, friends and creation. Friday nights are the best part, because with no TV, kids gone to bed, it's just me and my wife.

#christian #marriage #intimacy #datenight #sexytime #sabbath
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These same people also don't understand why you'd want to have a multi-hour sex session, because who wants to have boring sex for hours? Really amazing sex takes time.  It takes vulnerability.  It takes practice.  The good thing is even the practice is fun!

These same people also don't understand why you'd want to have a multi-hour sex session, because who wants to have boring sex for hours? Really amazing sex takes time. It takes vulnerability. It takes practice. The good thing is even the practice is fun! ...

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There's a time and a place to be silent, but don't make it every time.  Don't be a sex ninja.

There's a time and a place to be silent, but don't make it every time. Don't be a sex ninja. ...

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Every month we have new people join our supporters forum, and I love hearing their stories about what's going on in their lives.  Some are difficult and they're looking for help and still working to find solutions for their marriage.  Some have already found that help and are so excited and just want to share it!  One of our new supporters shared their story in our forum, and I asked if I could share this small piece of it because it was so encouraging and you can feel the joy even through the text.  I wish I could share the whole thing, but if you want to read it, you'll have to become a supporter of our ministry to gain access to the forum where you can read theirs, and many other couple's stories.  You can get more information about our supporters group here - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/donate

Every month we have new people join our supporters forum, and I love hearing their stories about what's going on in their lives. Some are difficult and they're looking for help and still working to find solutions for their marriage. Some have already found that help and are so excited and just want to share it! One of our new supporters shared their story in our forum, and I asked if I could share this small piece of it because it was so encouraging and you can feel the joy even through the text.

I wish I could share the whole thing, but if you want to read it, you'll have to become a supporter of our ministry to gain access to the forum where you can read theirs, and many other couple's stories.

You can get more information about our supporters group here - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/donate
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We recently hit 1,000 followers on Instragram, and as celebration, we're giving away 5 copies of Our Sexploration List!  The winners are:
@sami_brown_eyes
@heatherdawnmay
@zoneillr1
@nyawir_a
@cforbes1291  Contact me to get your free copy!  For everyone else, if you'd like 20% off Our Sexploration List, you can use the coupon code INSTAGRAM1K.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexlist

We recently hit 1,000 followers on Instragram, and as celebration, we're giving away 5 copies of Our Sexploration List!

The winners are:
@sami_brown_eyes
@heatherdawnmay
@zoneillr1
@nyawir_a
@cforbes1291

Contact me to get your free copy!

For everyone else, if you'd like 20% off Our Sexploration List, you can use the coupon code INSTAGRAM1K.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexlist
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Do you often fight about how often (or how rarely) you have sex in your marriage?  Chances are the reason isn't about the actual number, but about how it makes the higher drive spouse feel.  Here's how we solved that. 
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexual-frequency-why-i-dont-worry-anymore/  #marriage #sex #frequency #christian #blog

Do you often fight about how often (or how rarely) you have sex in your marriage? Chances are the reason isn't about the actual number, but about how it makes the higher drive spouse feel. Here's how we solved that.
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexual-frequency-why-i-dont-worry-anymore/

#marriage #sex #frequency #christian #blog
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Let's stop teaching our kids that sex is bad, and instead them them how amazing it is - in the proper context. https://bit.ly/3uFYuFY

Let's stop teaching our kids that sex is bad, and instead them them how amazing it is - in the proper context. https://bit.ly/3uFYuFY ...

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SWM 071 - Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies? - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-it-okay-for-christians-to-have-sexual-fantasies/  #marriage #christian #sex #fantasies #podcast #blog #questions #answers  Visit our profile for clickable links.

SWM 071 - Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies? - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-it-okay-for-christians-to-have-sexual-fantasies/

#marriage #christian #sex #fantasies #podcast #blog #questions #answers

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Looking to improve your marriage?  Start praying with your spouse.  It promotes vulnerability and intimacy, which will enhance all aspects of your relationship.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/praying-with-your-spouse/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.  #marriage #prayer #christian #intimacy #spiritualintimacy

Looking to improve your marriage? Start praying with your spouse. It promotes vulnerability and intimacy, which will enhance all aspects of your relationship.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/praying-with-your-spouse/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy

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#marriage #prayer #christian #intimacy #spiritualintimacy
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Not looking for immoral activities like threesomes and one-night-stands.  Something you can do as a married couples without anyone else.

Not looking for immoral activities like threesomes and one-night-stands. Something you can do as a married couples without anyone else. ...

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This is a post I wrote years ago while my wife was breastfeeding our fourth baby.  It's largely a rant because I was feeling a bit neglected.  But in all seriousness, I'm extremely pro-breastfeeding.  I believe it to be the best choice for food for a baby.  All our children breastfed for at least a year.  We had about a decade where my wife was either pregnant or breastfeeding.  But, that said, there are some things that husbands have to deal with as well, even though that's considered okay to say.  But, I know what husbands struggle with.  So, here's a post for them, and perhaps for some wives who want to understand the other side a bit.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/what-i-hate-about-breastfeeding/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.

This is a post I wrote years ago while my wife was breastfeeding our fourth baby. It's largely a rant because I was feeling a bit neglected.

But in all seriousness, I'm extremely pro-breastfeeding. I believe it to be the best choice for food for a baby. All our children breastfed for at least a year. We had about a decade where my wife was either pregnant or breastfeeding.

But, that said, there are some things that husbands have to deal with as well, even though that's considered okay to say. But, I know what husbands struggle with. So, here's a post for them, and perhaps for some wives who want to understand the other side a bit.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/what-i-hate-about-breastfeeding/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy

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Is sex a need or a want in marriage?  What do you think?
It matters, because if it's a want, then it can be deprioritized fairly easily.  But if it's a need, then we should be sacrificing other things in favour of sex.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-sex-a-need-or-a-want/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.  #Sex #Need #Want #Marriage #Christian #Theology

Is sex a need or a want in marriage? What do you think?
It matters, because if it's a want, then it can be deprioritized fairly easily. But if it's a need, then we should be sacrificing other things in favour of sex.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-sex-a-need-or-a-want/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy

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#Sex #Need #Want #Marriage #Christian #Theology
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I often tell couples that I think they should learn how to give each other massages. They've been so beneficial in my marriage, and in others, that I mention it a lot.  Perhaps too often.  So, rather than bringing it up all the time and the reasons, I thought I'd write this post detailing all of them, as well as the best way to learn so that later, I can just link to it and say "go read this".  Seriously though - learn how to give an excellent marriage. One of the best investments I ever made. I'll tell you how in the post.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/why-you-should-take-a-couples-massage-course/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy&utm_content=Why%20you%20should%20take%20a%20couples%20massage%20course  Visit our profile for clickable links.  #marriage #massage #christian #blog

I often tell couples that I think they should learn how to give each other massages. They've been so beneficial in my marriage, and in others, that I mention it a lot. Perhaps too often. So, rather than bringing it up all the time and the reasons, I thought I'd write this post detailing all of them, as well as the best way to learn so that later, I can just link to it and say "go read this".

Seriously though - learn how to give an excellent marriage. One of the best investments I ever made. I'll tell you how in the post.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/why-you-should-take-a-couples-massage-course/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy&utm_content=Why%20you%20should%20take%20a%20couples%20massage%20course

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#marriage #massage #christian #blog
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Does your wife have trouble telling you what she wants? Do you feel like she expects you to read her mind? Ever wonder why she can't just tell you?  Check out the blog post for the reason why.  https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/why-your-wife-cant-tell-you-what-she-wants/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.  #marriage #communication

Does your wife have trouble telling you what she wants? Do you feel like she expects you to read her mind? Ever wonder why she can't just tell you? Check out the blog post for the reason why.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/why-your-wife-cant-tell-you-what-she-wants/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy

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#marriage #communication
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Sometimes husbands need support too.
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/how-pregnancy-affects-sex/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy  Visit our profile for clickable links.

Sometimes husbands need support too.
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/how-pregnancy-affects-sex/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy

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