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It's Friday!  I don't know about everyone else, but I think Friday nights are perfect for some fun. So here's a way to kick it off tonight.

It's Friday! I don't know about everyone else, but I think Friday nights are perfect for some fun. So here's a way to kick it off tonight. ...

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We've got another romantic one today.  It doesn't mean it CAN'T lead to sex, just that it shouldn't be the expectation.

We've got another romantic one today. It doesn't mean it CAN'T lead to sex, just that it shouldn't be the expectation. ...

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So, I've never had my own soap.  Ever.  I went from living with my parents to being married.  That's not a complaint - just history. 
At my parents house, it was whatever soap was cheapest when my mom went shopping.
My wife prefers certain brands, but they tend to smell like tea tree, or coconut, or strawberry.
So when I saw the @drsquatch soap ads, I wanted to try them, and grabbed the Black Friday bundle which just arrived. I'm quite interested in trying "Pine Tar" first I think.
Anyone curious about how they are?  I'll share if people care.  Maybe see if I can get a coupon code if others want to try them.

So, I've never had my own soap. Ever. I went from living with my parents to being married. That's not a complaint - just history.

At my parents house, it was whatever soap was cheapest when my mom went shopping.

My wife prefers certain brands, but they tend to smell like tea tree, or coconut, or strawberry.

So when I saw the @drsquatch soap ads, I wanted to try them, and grabbed the Black Friday bundle which just arrived. I'm quite interested in trying "Pine Tar" first I think.

Anyone curious about how they are? I'll share if people care. Maybe see if I can get a coupon code if others want to try them.
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We've got another romantic one today.  Ladies - who likes getting their hair brushed?  My wife loves to have me play with her hair, so I learned to braid it too.  By the time I'm done, she's a puddle.

We've got another romantic one today. Ladies - who likes getting their hair brushed? My wife loves to have me play with her hair, so I learned to braid it too. By the time I'm done, she's a puddle. ...

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Today's card is from our romantic set.  If you don't know how to give a good massage, I highly suggest checking out Melt couples massage courses (uncoveringintimacy.com/melt).

Today's card is from our romantic set. If you don't know how to give a good massage, I highly suggest checking out Melt couples massage courses (uncoveringintimacy.com/melt). ...

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New day, new card.  Nothing fancy here, just a good way to start your morning, end your day, or whenever you fit it in.

New day, new card. Nothing fancy here, just a good way to start your morning, end your day, or whenever you fit it in. ...

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We drew a perfect one for the weekend! (Nooners can be a bit difficult to manage during the week).
Note: It doesn't have to be exactly at noon, so don't use that to weasle out of it.

We drew a perfect one for the weekend! (Nooners can be a bit difficult to manage during the week).

Note: It doesn't have to be exactly at noon, so don't use that to weasle out of it.
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Sorry, a little late with this one.  We got ... distracted this morning and then rushed to get to church and forgot about the cards.
This time we pulled a romantic one. Who likes getting scalp massages?

Sorry, a little late with this one. We got ... distracted this morning and then rushed to get to church and forgot about the cards.

This time we pulled a romantic one. Who likes getting scalp massages?
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Wow, another spicy one today. Perfect way to kick off a weekend of fun. Hope you're feeling adventurous if you're playing along.

Wow, another spicy one today. Perfect way to kick off a weekend of fun. Hope you're feeling adventurous if you're playing along. ...

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Well, it's December 1st, and that means we're running our Intimacy Advent Calendar again.  If you haven't bought your own copy from uncoveringintimacy.com/advent, then you can follow along here.
Each day we'll be picking a card at random and you can choose to send it to your spouse to gift them with it, or not.  We're going to be using the full deck, so some are going to be really spicy, and some more romantic.  Today - well, we started off with something a bit more adventurous it seems.

Well, it's December 1st, and that means we're running our Intimacy Advent Calendar again. If you haven't bought your own copy from uncoveringintimacy.com/advent, then you can follow along here.

Each day we'll be picking a card at random and you can choose to send it to your spouse to gift them with it, or not. We're going to be using the full deck, so some are going to be really spicy, and some more romantic. Today - well, we started off with something a bit more adventurous it seems.
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New podcast episode / blog post up - Anonymous Questions from August.
Topics include:
Coming clean about faking orgasms
Wanting wife to wear a diaper
Wet and messy / humiliation fetish
Is oral sex a measure of love?
Married and lonely
Chastity play
Sex outdoors
Pre-orgasmic wife
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-095-august-2022-anonymous-questions/

New podcast episode / blog post up - Anonymous Questions from August.

Topics include:
Coming clean about faking orgasms
Wanting wife to wear a diaper
Wet and messy / humiliation fetish
Is oral sex a measure of love?
Married and lonely
Chastity play
Sex outdoors
Pre-orgasmic wife

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-095-august-2022-anonymous-questions/
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Who's joining us for the AMA Event tomorrow night with @thelionwithin.us?  Bring your questions!
https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy

Who's joining us for the AMA Event tomorrow night with @thelionwithin.us? Bring your questions!

https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy
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The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well.  So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!
https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy

The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well. So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!

https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy
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New post:
A reader asks the question:
There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series of mid-to-long-term relationships that involve sex, and having a few hookups, but ends up in a stable marriage and has children by his mid-to-late twenties. The second person follows Biblical Courtship (or whatever you want to call it), saves sex for marriage, only courts/dates Christians, but never finds a spouse and ends up as a 40-year-old childless virgin.
Who was the more righteous of the two?

New post:

A reader asks the question:

There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series of mid-to-long-term relationships that involve sex, and having a few hookups, but ends up in a stable marriage and has children by his mid-to-late twenties. The second person follows Biblical Courtship (or whatever you want to call it), saves sex for marriage, only courts/dates Christians, but never finds a spouse and ends up as a 40-year-old childless virgin.

Who was the more righteous of the two?
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The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well.  So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!
https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy

The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well. So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!

https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy
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The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well.  So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!
https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy

The Lion Within and I had so much fun doing the podcast episode, and they got such positive feedback about it, they asked if I'd do a a live AMA Event as well. So, block off your calendars because it's going to be a great night!

https://bit.ly/3zJ6Zoy
...

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New podcast episode answering questions from May and June. 
Topics include:
Crossdressing
Counseling not fixing her sex drive
Should I keep fantasies to myself?
Husband addicted to porn
Wife has no sex drive
FaceTime sex
Spouse’s facial and body hair
Does Viagra work for women?
How do I stop her from seeing me as submissive?
No sex due to pregnancy complications
Wife struggles with overeating
How do I stop masturbating?
Anal fisting
Also, info about our Intimacy Advent Calendar and an AMA event coming up.
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-093-may-and-june-2022-anonymous-questions/

New podcast episode answering questions from May and June.

Topics include:
Crossdressing
Counseling not fixing her sex drive
Should I keep fantasies to myself?
Husband addicted to porn
Wife has no sex drive
FaceTime sex
Spouse’s facial and body hair
Does Viagra work for women?
How do I stop her from seeing me as submissive?
No sex due to pregnancy complications
Wife struggles with overeating
How do I stop masturbating?
Anal fisting

Also, info about our Intimacy Advent Calendar and an AMA event coming up.

https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-093-may-and-june-2022-anonymous-questions/
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One more quote from my experience of being a guest on TheLionWithin.us podcast.  Love how they grabbed these.
I said it, and I stand by it - Years ago, I rebranded my site from SexWithinMarriage.com to UncoveringIntimacy.com - why?  Because I wanted to talk about more than just sex.  Intimacy is doing life together, not just what happens in the bedroom.
Check out the podcast episode at 
https://thelionwithin.us/podcast/126-responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire-with-jay-dee/

One more quote from my experience of being a guest on TheLionWithin.us podcast. Love how they grabbed these.

I said it, and I stand by it - Years ago, I rebranded my site from SexWithinMarriage.com to UncoveringIntimacy.com - why? Because I wanted to talk about more than just sex. Intimacy is doing life together, not just what happens in the bedroom.

Check out the podcast episode at
https://thelionwithin.us/podcast/126-responsive-vs-spontaneous-desire-with-jay-dee/
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