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May 6
Know you should be talking about sex with your spouse, but don`t know how to start? This two-page PDF gives you 37 questions to ask each other about your beliefs, preferences and desires. FREE if you join our newsletter. http://uncoveringintimacy.com/37questions?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
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Learn to respond positively to bids for connection. It doesn`t mean you have to automatically do what they want, but you can be kind and engaging when you answer.
May 3
Learn to respond positively to bids for connection. It doesn`t mean you have to automatically do what they want, but you can be kind and engaging when you answer.
I talk to a lot of couples who think it`s just them who are struggling or that they`re one of a few. You`re not alone. All marriages have trouble. But you can get help to make the conflicts easier to manage and even grow through them. If you need help - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/coaching?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
May 2
I talk to a lot of couples who think it`s just them who are struggling or that they`re one of a few. You`re not alone. All marriages have trouble. But you can get help to make the conflicts easier to manage and even grow through them. If you need help - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/coaching?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
Let`s treat sexual abandonment the same as adultery. It`s a breaking of the vows and a form of infidelity. Like adultery, it`s recoverable - you can rebuild the marriage, but it should be taken as seriously. You`ve broken trust, broken your vows, and broken the relationship.
May 2
Let`s treat sexual abandonment the same as adultery. It`s a breaking of the vows and a form of infidelity. Like adultery, it`s recoverable - you can rebuild the marriage, but it should be taken as seriously. You`ve broken trust, broken your vows, and broken the relationship.
You miss out on body language, facial expressions and many other nuances that you`d pick up on in person. If you fight over text, you also miss tone, cadence and volume. It makes you less effective when communicating. Talk in person when possible about difficult topics.
May 1
You miss out on body language, facial expressions and many other nuances that you`d pick up on in person. If you fight over text, you also miss tone, cadence and volume. It makes you less effective when communicating. Talk in person when possible about difficult topics.
What`s your style/preference?
When you use "but", it negates whatever is before it. For example, "I love you, but" means it doesn`t matter that I love you because this other thing is more important. Using "and" reinforces whatever is before it. "I love you, and" means this is important because I love you.
Apr 29
When you use "but", it negates whatever is before it. For example, "I love you, but" means it doesn`t matter that I love you because this other thing is more important. Using "and" reinforces whatever is before it. "I love you, and" means this is important because I love you.
Nobody wins when you try to crush your spouse in an argument.
Want to make things more interesting in the bedroom? This printable deck of 50 cards will help you cycle through all the items in your sexual repertoire, and perhaps even add a few more.
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Apr 28
Want to make things more interesting in the bedroom? This printable deck of 50 cards will help you cycle through all the items in your sexual repertoire, and perhaps even add a few more.
https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/spicejar?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
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Want to add more foreplay to your bedroom activities? Looking for a way to shake things up and draw them out? Check out our Sexy Memory foreplay game at https://uncoveringintimacy.com/sexymemory?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
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Apr 27
Want to add more foreplay to your bedroom activities? Looking for a way to shake things up and draw them out? Check out our Sexy Memory foreplay game at https://uncoveringintimacy.com/sexymemory?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
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Do you think this would work for your marriage?
Conflict in a marriage is inevitable. They`re opportunities to learn and grow - but only if you fight well, and doing it while you`re flooded is not going to work.
Apr 26
Conflict in a marriage is inevitable. They`re opportunities to learn and grow - but only if you fight well, and doing it while you`re flooded is not going to work.
Many couples quietly struggle with this—some assume they chose wrong, others learn to navigate it with grace, patience, and deeper intimacy.
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Apr 25
Many couples quietly struggle with this—some assume they chose wrong, others learn to navigate it with grace, patience, and deeper intimacy.
✨ Curious where you stand?
Grab our free guide and discover what really affects your sex drive and how to work with—not against—each other:
👉 https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexdrive?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy
#MarriageTips #SexDrive #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #IntimacyInMarriage
It`s more often driven by fear. Fear that you won`t have enough, fear that you will miss out. Fear about the future, about your hopes, dreams and worries. So, if you start arguing about money - dig deeper and figure out what it`s really about, then talk about that.
Apr 25
It`s more often driven by fear. Fear that you won`t have enough, fear that you will miss out. Fear about the future, about your hopes, dreams and worries. So, if you start arguing about money - dig deeper and figure out what it`s really about, then talk about that.
Just make sure your spouse is okay with that plan .. and be careful about order in which you put things in things... Looking for more ideas - check out Our Sexploration List (https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexlist?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy). Use the coupon code TryOurSexList for 25% off.
Apr 25
Just make sure your spouse is okay with that plan .. and be careful about order in which you put things in things... Looking for more ideas - check out Our Sexploration List (https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/sexlist?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=uncoveringintimacy). Use the coupon code TryOurSexList for 25% off.
Improve your marriage by using `I feel` and `I need` statements to express your feelings and needs positively. Focus on what you want, not what you don`t. This shifts the conversation from blame to understanding and growth. What do you need in your marriage right now?
Apr 24
Improve your marriage by using `I feel` and `I need` statements to express your feelings and needs positively. Focus on what you want, not what you don`t. This shifts the conversation from blame to understanding and growth. What do you need in your marriage right now?
Learn to respond positively to bids for connection. It doesn`t mean you have to automatically do what they want, but you can be kind and engaging when you answer.
Apr 23
Learn to respond positively to bids for connection. It doesn`t mean you have to automatically do what they want, but you can be kind and engaging when you answer.
Marriages have their own culture, and it`s constantly growing and evolving, and it can be different from the perspective of each spouse. What 3 words would you use to describe your marriage right now? I`ll start. Our marriage is loving, adventurous and enduring. Your turn!
Apr 21
Marriages have their own culture, and it`s constantly growing and evolving, and it can be different from the perspective of each spouse. What 3 words would you use to describe your marriage right now? I`ll start. Our marriage is loving, adventurous and enduring. Your turn!
It releases oxytocin, dopamine, epinephrine and norepinephrine - a cocktail of love chemicals that reduces stress hormones, lowers blood pressure, and sends oxygenated blood to your brain.
Apr 20
It releases oxytocin, dopamine, epinephrine and norepinephrine - a cocktail of love chemicals that reduces stress hormones, lowers blood pressure, and sends oxygenated blood to your brain.