Category Archives: Divorce

SWM042 – God will never leave you

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 – Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.

Divorce is contagious

I heard something the other day while listening to a talk by Jenna McCarthy. Divorce is contagious! And the first thing I thought was “What? That’s ridiculous!” But it turns out that having close friends who get divorced increases your own chance of divorce by

What if I had married someone else?

Many of us play the “What if” game and don’t realize how dangerous is it can be. I have at least three readers who are going to think I’m writing this post for them based on questions they’ve asked recently. The truth is, I had

Getting over an affair

I received this question a couple of days ago in from our anonymous Have A Question page about recovering from an old affair: I found out about my husband’s affair 3 years ago. The affair happened @ 12 years ago and he kept it from

Dealing with a Bait and Switch

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a month ago: My wife and I have had a troubled sex life for years. Before we were married it was incredible and she fulfilled every desire I had(yes we know it was

James on Is it wrong for Christians to be Circumcised?: “No, the “right” lady would never ask her fiancé or husband to be circumcised for her superfluous preference. If such…” Jul 10, 11:10
tke865 on Is it wrong for Christians to be Circumcised?: “Hadn’t noticed your response Jay, so I’m sorry this is a year in the making. I say “confessional” Lutheran to…” Jul 9, 11:28
Abe on Is it wrong for Christians to be Circumcised?: ““Jay is right in his response. I say you CAN forgive the doctor. I had a LOT of anger towards…” Jul 9, 09:50
Abe on Is it wrong for Christians to be Circumcised?: “So would you feel the same way about female circumcision? I’ve heard about Christian missionaries who had their daughters circumcised…” Jul 9, 09:37
Abe on Is it wrong for Christians to be Circumcised?: “I fully agree with this post. If it is not immoral to circumcise your son in this age of grace,…” Jul 9, 09:29
Jay Dee on SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020: “I’m completely missing what you’re saying then I’m afraid. It seems we both agree it would be wrong to have…” Jul 8, 15:43
Kevin on SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020: “I guess Jay I am offering an alternative opinion. I am no saying she should have sex, as I would…” Jul 8, 15:25
Jay Dee on SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020: “Firstly, she already filed for divorce – so, clearly not trying to reconcile. In essence, she’s divorced, just waiting for…” Jul 8, 14:58
Kevin on SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020: “On question 2 I am sorry but the advice you have given is really poor advice. She may have filed…” Jul 8, 14:31
Jay Dee on Is it still adultery if you have permission?: “Love can change. I’d start working on the marriage and try to recover from where it currently is.” Jul 8, 08:46