Category Archives: Divorce

SWM042 – God will never leave you

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 – Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.

Divorce is contagious

I heard something the other day while listening to a talk by Jenna McCarthy. Divorce is contagious! And the first thing I thought was “What? That’s ridiculous!” But it turns out that having close friends who get divorced increases your own chance of divorce by

What if I had married someone else?

Many of us play the “What if” game and don’t realize how dangerous is it can be. I have at least three readers who are going to think I’m writing this post for them based on questions they’ve asked recently. The truth is, I had

Getting over an affair

I received this question a couple of days ago in from our anonymous Have A Question page about recovering from an old affair: I found out about my husband’s affair 3 years ago. The affair happened @ 12 years ago and he kept it from

Dealing with a Bait and Switch

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a month ago: My wife and I have had a troubled sex life for years. Before we were married it was incredible and she fulfilled every desire I had(yes we know it was

Jay Dee on My Wife Wants Me To Tie Her Up?!: “Considering she's stated in the past that she has no interest in it, I'd suggest starting with a conversation.…” Oct 16, 15:25
Jay Dee on Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?: “I think that's a large difference between accepting their's a prostate that can be used for pleasure and choosing to…” Oct 16, 15:20
Jay Dee on When did God stop allowing multiple wives: “You should read the post again. A lot of those verses pre-date the Roman era.” Oct 16, 15:16
Jay Dee on Responsive vs spontaneous desire: “It depends which side I'm talking to. If I'm talking to the wife, then yes, I've definitely said things like…” Oct 16, 15:11
Jay Dee on What about sex for the surviving spouse?: “I would think that would be more of a betrayal. That seems to point to the view that sex…” Oct 16, 14:59
A. Mary on What about sex for the surviving spouse?: “If a person was married for over 40 years and had an enjoyable sex life with her husband then why…” Oct 15, 11:58
Ken D. on Is it alright to ejaculate on my wife?: “Help her more, be more and more part of her daily life ! Help her in shores, do…” Oct 13, 05:27
Rick on Can a marriage survive without sex?: “I am in that exact situation, and it is GUARANTEED to cause problems when the sexless marriage was NOT YOUR…” Oct 12, 16:42
Maria Rubinstein on Do men like having their balls played with?: “That’s so funny! I find playing with my husband’s balls is a stress reliever for me and he loves it.…” Oct 12, 16:41
Lewis on Responsive vs spontaneous desire: “This seems very much like an attempt to place a scientific explanation on a marital partner’s, the responsive partner per-se,…” Oct 8, 14:43