Definition: "BDSM" is an acronym referring to a variety of intimate practices encompassing Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Dominance and Submission (D&S), and Sadism and Masochism (S&M), often involving consensual power exchange or sensory stimulation.
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In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: – Do men enjoy cunnilingus after ejaculation? – Should I feel bad for refusing oral after anal? – My spouse says I should accept substitutes for sex – Feeling unloved due to…
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Topics include: •Talking about a lack of sex •Not drive due to cancer treatments •Wife doesn’t want to use lube •Our sex life is routine •Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation •Do husbands like handjobs? •Can a married couple film…
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Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm
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Topics include: Wife’s love dependent on mood Why don’t you direct people to God? Can’t seem to manage other positions Wife rejects exploration and being seen Nervous about sex outdoors Crossdressing rehash
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During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
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Topics include: How often should a healthy man need sex? Clitoral piercing How do we start talking about sex without fighting? Is it good to masturbate to stay in a sexless marriage? Professional nude photos with a male photographer Newly…
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Topics include: Does my wife know what I’m doing to her? I want to share orgasms with my husband What are your thoughts on BDSM? Is bondage a problem for me? Wife doesn’t like direct clitoral stimulation How do I…
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Topics Include: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a…
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Topics Include: How to get more intimate nights with my wife Can I have sex with my ex-husband? Does my husband want kinky sex? Is it okay to want more passionate sex? What happens when you die? – what about…
A reader asks: I enjoy calling my husband “Sir” in bed, as we enjoy our submissive/dominant roles in marriage to be played out in sex as well. He felt weird about it at first, but now loves it. I read…
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Answering questions from our readers. Questions include: Is doggy style demeaning? Does anal sex always cause bleeding? How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife? Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse? How to handle a wife…