Category Archives: Physical Intimacy


Why Do Married Men Masturbate?

Ever wonder why married men masturbate? Is sex not enough? Why do they do it? I think there are three main reasons at the center of all solo masturbation.

Do Men Want Their Women To Take The Lead More When It Comes To Sex?

Anonymous Questions from our readers

I think this is a mistaken perception most of the time. We see this all the time on movies and TV shows, the sexually aggressive female, not only aggressive, but overtly aggressive, and it sparks something in men when they see that, they are attracted to it. Why? I don’t think it’s that the woman is aggressive, it’s that she’s sexually confident.

Why Do You Think Women Need More Foreplay Than Men?

Anonymous Questions from our readers

I should start by saying, I don’t fit the male stereotype. I love foreplay. I like kissing, I like hugging, I like feeling my wife. I also recognize that I need foreplay in order to perform sexually better. On the other side, my wife also does not fit the female stereotype. She gets annoyed with foreplay, she wants to “get on with it”, though she does recognize that she also needs foreplay in order to perform sexually better. We do fit the male/female stereo typical sex drives though, so, here’s my opinion on the matter:

All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics of conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have a pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot in my readings on message

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

OK, I know, I know, every blog about marriage, relationships, etc has at least one article with that title.  They usually have a large list of techniques, activities.  Maybe they suggest a blindfold (gasp).  But that’s the easy stuff.   I think you want something

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. Let me preface this by saying I’m 100% in favour of breastfeeding children. I think breast milk is the healthiest option for infants. All our children have been exclusively breastfed, and I would never suggest anything

Is sex a need or want in marriage?

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a little rocky,