Becoming more sexually engaged – For Christian Wives

(5 customer reviews)


Recapture that “honeymoon” feeling

Are you a Christian wife who struggles to be sexually engaged in your marriage?

This course will help by

  • Breaking down your unhealthy mental barriers about sex
  • Learning about your husband’s desire for you
  • Help you be more willing to accept him, and yourself, as sexual beings

If you have a desire to become more sexually engaged, but are not quite sure how to start, this is the course for you.



What you’ll get with the course

  • A lesson every other day for 2 months designed to help improve your ability, willingness and desire to be more sexually engaged in your marriage
  • 7 challenges throughout the course to help you grow and change your relationship
  • Bonus lessons for those wives who really want to stretch themselves
  • An online community of Christian wives to help support you as you grow

This course contains the following lessons

Module 1 – Acceptance: Being more open to your husband’s advances

For many wives, the first step to becoming more sexually engaged is simply to start accepting their husband’s advances.

This module will focus on:

  • Understanding what sex means to your husband, what he’s really saying when he says he wants to have sex
  • Understanding that sex is a part of a larger cycle in your marriage, how your sex life is either helping or hurting
  • Understanding the Bible’s counsel about sex, our duties and rights as spouses.

Module 2 – Learning to get naked with your husband

Wives often feel a sense of shame about their bodies and nudity, even with their husband.

This module will focus on:

  • Biblical teaching on beauty and worth
  • Information to help you understand what your husband sees when he sees you naked
  • Encouraging you and help to address the fears you have about your body
  • Ways to ease into getting naked in front of your spouse

Module 3 – Learning to communicate about and during sex

One of the hardest things to talk about is sex. We grow up with so many false teachings about it being taboo to talk about, about sex being a dirty word. It’s hard to suddenly switch when we get married and communicate effectively about sex. No wonder talking about sex is difficult at best, and paralyzing for many.

This module will focus on:

  • Teaching you basic communication and conflict management skills to give you a foundation
  • Learning to apply those skills in communicating about sex.
  • Learning about communicating during sex (but not dirty talk, that’s coming later)

Module 4 – Learning to get excited about sex

It’s time to awaken a passion for sex inside of you.

This module will focus on:

  • The reasons God created sex according to the Bible
  • A quick look at Song of Solomon to learn more about what a passionate wife looks like
  • Exploring what husbands say they want to see from their wives when it comes to being passionate about sex

Module 5 – Learning to initiate sex

One of the things we hear the most from husbands is that they wish their wives would initiate sex more often. To them, this is a clear sign that they are more sexually engaged. But initiating sex can be a daunting thought for many wives.

This module will focus on:

  • What initiating sex means to your husband and what your husband is looking for
  • Issues around switching gears
  • How to get in the mood for sex, or at least into a mood that will allow you to transition to sex easier

Module 6 – Making sure monogamy isn’t monotony

The next step in the journey is to bring a little more adventure into the marriage bed. Adventure requires risk, and risk requires stepping outside of your comfort zone.

This module will focus on:

  • The risk and reward hormones that our brains produce
  • Encouraging you to explore your boundaries and the reasons for them
  • Helping you shed boundaries that are not helpful
  • How to keep things interesting in the bedroom

Module 7 – How to fit intimacy into a busy life

If you’re new at being a sexually engaged wife, one struggle can be making time for sex.

This module will focus on:

  • Biblical advice for time management and adding buffer to your life
  • Practical tips to finding time in your busy life
  • A discussion on scheduling sex

Bonus module: Your husband won’t know what hit him

This module is a bonus for those who want to push the limits. We’re going to introduce some topics that might be “kinky” to some. For those who really want to “wow” their husbands, we have some things that are sure to heat up the bedroom.

Want to know what the topics will be? Well, you’ll just have to sign up to find out.

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5 reviews for Becoming more sexually engaged – For Christian Wives

  1. NN

    Having being married for 8 years, one would think that our marriage is still on ‘honeymoon stage’. Life has taught me that in marriage, one never ‘arrives’, hence I was glad when I was given the opportunity to be part of the course ‘Becoming more sexually engaged for Christian wives’.

    With the birth of my 2 children and raising them, it is easy to fall out of love with your spouse. The course helped me get that ‘spark’ back in my marriage again. I learnt about things that were important to my husband and the great thing was that the views were from a male perspective. It is amazing how my husband sees the change in our sex life and for me, I would always want to see him this happy all the days of our lives.

    At times we wives think we ‘know it all’ and end up treating our husbands like children. I have learnt how to communicate and get out of my comfort zone when it comes to loving my husband sexually. Not only that, but also how important sex is to my husband, how he connects with me through sex.

    Even though I did the course, I will continue going back to the modules to re-read them as the material has really been eye opening and the contents are applicable in my daily life.

    I wouldn’t mind one for the men also;-)


  2. Heather (verified owner)

    When I first started this course I was struggling with even wanting to be with my husband sexually. He had confessed viewing pornography for a long time and it was hard for me to be engaged in being intimate with him. Although this course has nothing to do with pornography recovery what it did for me was transform my thinking and transform more than just the intimate parts of my marriage. It took me through the process of understanding what normal is and that things I was blaming on his sin where indeed normal behavior for most men. The course included challenges in each unit and I enjoyed trying each of them. This course transformed my marriage. Not just in the sexual intimacy it change a lot of other areas too. I would highly recommend this course to anyone wanting to have a deeper relationship with your husband. Thank you Jay for writing it.

  3. lindawdale (verified owner)

    My husband and I just celebrated our 27th year of marriage. 4 kids later…2 of which have gone on to graduate college and the others currently attending college…you know there have been MANY things to give our attention to other than our marriage. Now that we are “empty nesters” my husband and I had to go back and remember why we were together in the first place! See, we didn’t get it, the Bible tells us to love God, then spouse, then kids etc. I came to realize that I needed a sexual “awakening!” This course gave me such insight and helped me understand that God created sex to keep us connected and share that closeness that we had at one time but seemed to lose along the way. The way most everything was backed up with scripture was so enlighten. I was also able to get more insight as to why my husband wanted this closeness and also understand maybe why I wasn’t giving him the intimacy that he desired. I would say this course was very instrumental in giving this old girl her “groove back”. 🙂 My husband is pretty happy about it too!

  4. Jay Dee (verified owner)

    Maidservants of Christ wrote an excellent review over on their site. If you want more information, you can read it here:

  5. T (verified owner)

    My wife and I just completed reading this course together. It was very helpful for us. We have been married for 35+ years now. We have 4 grown children who are all out of the house now so we are empty nesters. There were things in our past that we just never dealt with that this course got us to talk about. We were headed down a path of rejecting each other. We are now starting to communicate about the past and are trying to get over it.

    Another course that my wife took is at – it was very helpful as well.

    My wife told me that these 2 Bible studies offer down to earth practical things that apply to real life. Other marriage seminars and Bible studies we have attended have been very generic and have not been all that helpful.

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