I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: For the longest time I have been the low drive spouse but as my heart and mind changes in becoming the higher drive spouse. Well…
Sex when the kids are home
Physical Intimacy
Should I leave to find happiness?
I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hello Jay, a friend put me on to your site awhile ago. I just signed up for daily posts this week. The second article I…
How do you forgive an abuser?
I received this question this weekend from our anonymous Have A Question page: My wife as had a brother commit incest sexual touching and masturbation on her and other in her family from around 6-9 year old. She has strugle with…
On the topic of edging
I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging“, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge”…
Is it unreasonable to expect my spouse to remove their pubic hair?
Some of you may recognize this question from our Personal Grooming Survey (go fill it out if you haven’t already): Is it unreasonable for me (husband) to expect my wife to continue to remove pubic hair, like she did when we…
How can my spouse love me if they are withholding sex?
I received this question a couple of weeks ago from our Have A Question page: How can my wife say that she loves me but then withhold sex; say she loves me but not want to have sex with me?…
Do you pray as a couple before sex, after sex, or does it depend on the night?
This is a question I received some time ago. I don’t remember when, or through what channel. But, I want to take the time to answer it today. Do you pray as a couple before sex, after sex, or does…
Is it alright to ejaculate on my wife?
I received this anonymous question last night through our Have A Question page. I have more than have been there longer, and I intend to answer them, but today I don’t have much time, so I picked it because I thought…
How do you tell your spouse you’re having too much sex?
I received this question last week through our anonymous Have A Question page: I am a 32 year old mom of three little ones, with a pretty good sex drive (2-6a week) but my husband has much higher than me.…
Personal Grooming Survey
I received a question about a week ago regarding personal grooming, and in the question they stated: [My wife] claims that NO ONE does that every week, month or more than once or twice a year… For those of you…
Want help losing weight and getting fit?
I’ve been thinking about fitness lately. More specifically, I’ve been frustrated by my lack of fitness lately. For those who are long time readers, this is an ongoing frustration. I’ve been technically obese my entire adult life, and while I…