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  SWM 152 – AQ – Unsexy nightclothes, husbands who won’t initiate, scent and partner selection and more
  Topics include: My wife’s nightclothes are killing my attraction Is using a vibrator wrong? How do I get my husband to initiate sex? Need something to spice up our sex life How does scent factor into spouse selection Recovery after pregnancy Is using classical conditioning on your spouse wrong? How do I keep myself from becoming distant from my husband? How can I talk to my husband about oral sex?
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  SWM 151 – AQ – Oral Sex Norms, Fantasy Guilt & Rekindling Passion
  In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: – Do men enjoy cunnilingus after ejaculation? – Should I feel bad for refusing oral after anal? – My spouse says I should accept substitutes for sex – Feeling unloved due to lack of physical affection – Guilt over sexual desires shaped by past porn use – When one spouse wants BDSM and the other doesn’t – Sex is loving but not exciting—can it be fixed? – Why not have kids in your 40s? – Survey requests on mutual masturbation and handjobs
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  Lovense Ferri Review – A Discreet Little Spark for Married Play
  A while back Lovense reached out to me to ask if I wanted to try one of their toys in exchange for a review.  We were given the choice between the Ferri or the Lush 4 to try out, and after a little forum polling and back-and-forth, we ended up picking the Ferri—mostly because the idea of a discreet, wearable toy for public-but-private connection felt a bit too tempting to pass up.
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  SWM 150 – Control, sex and marriage
  Last month, I watched a great video by Gary Thomas and his wife Lisa on how a controlling spirit can harm a marriage. It got me thinking: In Christian circles, we often struggle to define the difference between healthy leadership and damaging control—both in marriage and in our relationship with God. Why is it that surrendering to God is seen as good, but demanding control from a spouse is harmful? The key, I believe, is consent and love. When surrender is freely given and motivated by love, it can bring freedom and joy. But when control is forced, it leads to resentment and broken trust. In this post, I’m sharing some personal stories and lessons we’ve learned about navigating these tricky dynamics in marriage.
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  SWM 149 – My daughter’s speech – Transgenderism is a lie
   Today we’re going to do something a little bit different. For those who have been listening for more than a year, you know that my kids are in 4H and every year they have to deliver a speech. For the last few years, my eldest daughter has been delivering speeches about transgenderism based on her research and her own personal experiences. So, as has been our tradition for the last three years, we wanted to share this one with you as well in the hopes that it might impact you. So this is my daughter’s speech titled Transgenderism is a Lie.