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  Most Marriage Conflicts Aren’t About Right and Wrong
  A couple describes their latest fight. The dishwasher, bedtime, whether you deal with a problem the moment it comes up or sleep on it first. The details change, but both of them are frustrated and both are certain they are right. Most marital conflict is not about right and wrong, it is two reasonable preferences competing. Here is how Paul handled exactly this in Romans 14, and three questions that tell you whether you are defending a principle or just a preference.
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  What does Biblical Leadership look like in a Marriage?
  A wife posted her list of instant divorce triggers, and the top item was her husband finding God and joining a patriarchal religion. I understand why. Most of what gets called headship is a man reading two verses and deciding he is in charge. Here are five principles drawn from the whole of Scripture that paint a very different picture: responsibility flows up, freedom flows down, and if you have to pull rank, you have already lost.
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  Why Does My Wife Refuse Intimacy Beyond the Basics?
  A husband writes: seventeen years married, sex twice a week, and his wife will not try anything beyond the basics. He says he does not know why she refuses. But she told him why, four times, and he heard it as one refusal. Here is what each of those four answers actually means, and why the real problem is not oral sex or toys, but that the topic itself has become off limits.
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  How to Solve the Mental Load in a Christian Marriage
  Social media says the mental load is a chore problem, and that if husbands just did their half, their exhausted wives would finally want them. But splitting the load in half does not lift it. Here is why the mental load is really a leadership problem, and the biblical solution the world keeps fumbling toward.
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  Why Do I Feel So Rejected by My Spouse?
  “I struggle with rejection, even when I haven’t actually been rejected.” If that lands for you, there’s a name for it: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, and it’s closely tied to ADHD. Here’s what RSD is, how it quietly damages a marriage (especially in the bedroom), and what actually helps.